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How to Lose Your Child Arrangements Case in 6 Easy Steps
Most parents who come to court are not unreasonable. They care about their children, they want things to be fair, and they often have genuine concerns. But again and again, I see cases weakened not because of the underlying facts but because of how those facts are presented. These are the six biggest mistakes I see in children proceedings. None of them are deliberate. All of them are avoidable. Fixing even one or two can materially change how your case is received. 1. Over-re

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
May 76 min read


Witness Statements
Witness statements are the most important statements you will write. They are the point in your case where you give the evidence you want the court to take into account. In many ways it’s the part that most of my clients say they are waiting for. Warning: This will be a long one, so buckle up! The ‘want’ to send evidence to court Throughout proceedings and certainly at the very start of their case my clients want the court to immediately view and consider their evidence.

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Dec 9, 202512 min read


Mckenzie Friends (updated Sept 2025)
Quite a long time ago now I wrote a blog post which talked about what Mckenzie Friends are, what we do, and how we might assist in your...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Sep 17, 20258 min read


Should I appoint a Guardian for my children in my will?
Planning ahead: What happens to my child if I die before they become an adult? This is a bit of a morbid one today, as we think about...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Jul 21, 202510 min read


What should I do if there is an error with my court order?
It’s sadly all too common that there are mistakes in court orders when they arrive following a hearing, but what can be done about it?...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Dec 18, 20246 min read


Help - My report was biased!
At First Family Law we often hear from new or prospective clients that they have received a letter / report / email from court that was...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Jun 1, 20246 min read


AI and Family Court
Over the last few months the number of mentions of using AI in family proceedings has increased dramatically both throughout my online...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Apr 15, 20246 min read


Navigating the Complexity: Understanding the Anatomy of a Child Arrangements Order
So you’ve got court for child arrangements coming up in the future, and you’re not quite sure what happens? Well, please see my blog post...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Feb 23, 20248 min read


Christmas is coming...
Christmas Day is just a couple of weeks away and it can be a time where emotions run high for separated parents. I wanted to put together...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Dec 9, 20233 min read


HELP! I think I'm going to court (what do I do?)
HELP! I’m being taken to court / I need to apply to court – where to I start? Like you, I never thought I’d have to see the inside of a...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Sep 18, 20237 min read


Will The Court Listen To My Child?
The Voice of the child One of the questions I’m asked most frequently about by the clients that I advise is whether or not the court will...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
May 22, 20236 min read


Everything you ever wanted to know about mediation (but were too afraid to ask)
Family mediation week 16-20 January 2023 The mediation process Mediation is a form of dispute resolution along with arbitration and...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Jan 18, 202310 min read


Your Day In Court
An in-depth look at preparing for your first hearing. I thought I’d write this latest blog post about what to expect on the day. Not so...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Aug 18, 20227 min read


Position Statements
1. One of the most common tasks you'll have to undertake when going through family law proceedings is to produce position statements, so...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Jul 13, 20226 min read


Controversial: There is no significant gender bias in family court
A controversial post making the case for there being no significant gender bias in the family courts of the UK

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Jul 1, 20227 min read


Mckenzie Friends
Mckenzie friends I regularly get asked what a McKenzie friend is and what is it that I do. Essentially it’s advice and support for people...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Feb 18, 20223 min read


My rights as a parent!
My rights! “But it’s against my rights as a mother / father!” How many times do we read that? If you’re a part of the many parenting or...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Dec 3, 20211 min read


FAQs
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS This is not intended an exhaustive list of information, but a starting point with the frequently asked...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Feb 24, 20214 min read


On self-representation, and solicitors.
There has always been much talk on my group and others about solicitors, indeed it has been one of the most frequently discussed, and...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Dec 3, 20207 min read


Contact Withholding
Most of you are here because you’ve had, or are having issues surrounding levels of contact between separated parents. I’m seeing quite a...

NeilAndrewsMckenzie
Oct 16, 20202 min read
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